Accept the fact that life is not easy. We will experience a lot of challenge and problems.
As a matter of fact, that’s how life works. You will deal with situations that either can make you into a better human being or it’s going to destroy you.
There are people that experience the same thing, same cases with us but overcome the situations with a variety of attitude that leads to a different result.
I know that sometimes we are the victim in the situation. We are the victim of our parents, our demanding society, the situation itself that we could not control.
Guys, without you even realize it, we play the role of the weak one.
We cannot blame the situation itself. We cannot blame people around that hurt us, make us feel weak. It’s not about the problem it’s about our heart and mind.
I’ve been through my worse. I blame God who created me and given me a messed up family. I blame my parents for the divorce that lead to certain cases that I hate them, I come into terms of being desperate for affection. I blame everything that has happened in my life. But as I get through the hard time, I realize with the help of God and several supportive friends and mentor, I’ve been healed.
I can accept my self, my life, and my problems.
I know that whatever the situations that I am going through, it’s gonna grow me into a better person.
“I am not a victim. No matter what I have been through, I’m still here. I have a history of victory.”
― Steve Maraboli,
Nowadays, there are a lot of people that use their dark experience and inspire society.
Malala Yousafzai is a woman activist who participates in the human right advocacy. She was harmed after a Taliban shooter endeavored to kill her and overcome the situation by doing what she can to stand out for the girls around Pakistan so they are allowed to get an education.
There are a lot of public figures that have to get through hard time first before they reach their greatest potential.
Sometimes you will realize your greatest potential through the hard time you encountered.
It is tough, but know that there’s always a reason for it to happen in your life. Either you use it for a greater good or life with the mindset of a victim and blame people around you. If you choose the second one, then you only gonna regret your life and could not move forward from the past.