Not a victim.

To all of the woman out there.

Who don’t really know who they truly are.

You don’t feel comfortable nor confident with yourself.

Who is in a battle with yourself…

You are tired of yourself, your surroundings, and everything that is happening is just against your will.

You should know that….

You are not a victim.

You are not a product of an accident.

You are not a weak person.

Your situation does not define you.

You are strong.

You are meant to be


You are beautiful.

You are worth it.

Don’t compare your stories nor yourself with the people around you.

Don’t feel like you are not as good as they are.

Whatever your situation is, you can get through it.

You have your own identity. People’s opinion about you does not define you.

Whatever label you adopted to yourself, whatever judgment that people ever told you, it’s not true.

You are not alone in the problematic world. You are not the only one who deals with the issue.

Your pain will turn into your power.

It’ll become the strength, it will lead you to your fullest and strongest version of you. 

There’s a story about a girl, her name is Mandy Harvey.

She got deaf due to loss a connective tissue disorder that affected her nerves and hearing at the age eighteen. She used to sing. It’s part of her soul to sing. After the event, it

After she got the disease, she cannot hear anymore…

“After I lose my hearing, I gave up. But I want to do more with my life than just gave up”- Mandy Harvey

She is 29 years old now. She could not control her disease, she could not turn back time. She could give up for her life, dreams, potentials because of her condition. She could just be the ‘deaf girl’ that live the life as it is. But she decided not to.

“I want to do more than just gave up”-Mandy Harvey 


By Mandy Harvey 

I don’t feel the way I used to
The sky is grey much more than it is blue
But I know one day I’ll get through
And I’ll take my place again
So I will try
So I will try

I don’t love the way I need to
You need more and I know that much is true
So I’ll fight for our breakthrough
And I’ll breathe in you again
If I would try
If I would try

There is no one for me to blame
cause I know the only thing in my way
Is me

Your Situation does not define you. The inspiring Mandy Harvey.

Don’t give up.

You are not weak.

You will get through the battle.

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